Last updated:

6th October 2023

Personal, Social and Emotional Development

Personal, social and emotional development 

Children's personal, social and emotional development (PSED) is crucial for children to lead healthy and happy lives, and is fundamental to their cognitive development. Underpinning their personal development are the important attachments that shape their social world. Strong, warm and supportive relationships with adults enable children to learn how to understand their own feelings and those of others.

Early Learning Goals for Personal, Social and Emotional Development

Self-Regulation:

  • Show an understanding of their own feelings and those of others, and begin to regulate their behaviour accordingly
  • Set and work towards simple goals, being able to wait for what they want and control their immediate impulses when appropriate
  • Give focused attention to what the teacher says, responding appropriately even when engaged in activity, and show an ability to follow instructions involving several ideas or actions

Managing Self:

  • Be confident to try new activities and show independence, resilience and perseverance in the face of challenge
  • Explain the reasons for rules, know right from wrong and try to behave accordingly
  • Manage their own basic hygiene and personal needs, including dressing, going to the toilet and understanding the importance of healthy food choices

Building Relationships:

  • Work and play cooperatively and take turns with others
  • Form positive attachments to adults and friendships with peers
  • Show sensitivity to their own and to others' needs

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